Finding Peace After Miscarriage | A Guide to Moving Forward

The loss of a pregnancy can be a deeply painful experience. It's not always easy or obvious how to move forward when your heart is devastated. Miscarriage can leave you feeling empty, heartbroken, and lost, but it's important to remember that you are not alone. In fact, while it’s estimated that 10-20 percent of known pregnancies end in miscarriage, at least 41% of all pregnancies end in a form of loss. Although it might feel like you're drowning in a sea of grief and confusion, hope and healing are still to be found. 


In this article, we'll explore ways to cope with your loss, rebuild your emotional strength, and find peace after a miscarriage.


  1. Acknowledge Your Feelings

woman acknowledging her feelings after miscarriage


The first step toward healing is acknowledging your feelings of grief, sadness, anger, and even shame. It is essential to allow yourself to experience these emotions. Many people may not understand the depths of your pain, but it is crucial to remember that your feelings are valid. Talk to your partner, a close friend, or a professional counselor to help you process your emotions and begin the healing process. 


  1. Seek Support

Seeking support after experiencing miscarriage

 

You don't have to go through this difficult time alone. Reach out to friends, family, or support groups to share your feelings and experiences. Connecting with others who have gone through a similar loss can provide comfort and understanding. There are many support groups, both online and offline, specifically dedicated to helping parents who have experienced a miscarriage. Your healthcare provider may also be able to recommend local resources. 

You can also find no-cost resources to aid you in your healing process here.


  1. Create a Miscarriage Keepsake

Little Names Keepsake | MyJuly27

Having a tangible item to remember your baby can be a source of comfort and healing. A miscarriage remembrance necklace, for example, can serve as a constant reminder of your baby's presence and the love you have for them. These necklaces often feature a pendant with a meaningful symbol, such as a flower, a heart, or a footprint, and can be personalized with your baby's name, birth date, or a special message.


In addition to miscarriage remembrance necklaces, other miscarriage keepsakes can also help you honor your baby's memory. You may consider creating a memory box with special items, such as ultrasound images, a pregnancy journal, or a special blanket. Some parents may also choose to plant a tree, create a piece of art, or write a poem in remembrance of their baby.


  1. Take Care of Your Physical and Emotional Health

prioritizing self care by stepping outside

 

Your body has been through an incredible amount, so be kind to yourself and give your body the time it needs to heal. Prioritize self-care by eating well, getting enough sleep, stepping outside, and engaging in gentle exercise when you feel ready.


It's also important to take care of your emotional health. Engage in activities that bring you joy and relaxation, such as reading, going for walks, or spending time with loved ones. Remember that healing is a process, and it's important to be patient with yourself as you navigate this journey.


  1. Allow for Hope and Resilience

rainbow baby nursery wall art

Rainbow Baby "Forget Me Not" Nursery Wall Art

 

While it's important to honor your grief and loss, it's also essential to allow yourself to feel hope and resilience. Remember that healing is possible and that there is a future beyond this pain. 


If you're considering trying for another pregnancy, talk with your healthcare provider about each of your concerns and inquire about any necessary precautions. Understand that it's normal to feel a mix of excitement and fear, and take the time you need to prepare for this new journey.

However, also keep in mind that a “rainbow baby” (a baby born after loss) will never be a replacement for the child you lost.


  1. Be Patient with Yourself

be patient with yourself after experiencing miscarriage


Healing from a miscarriage is a personal journey, and each person's experience is unique. Be patient with yourself. Give yourself grace. Remember that it is okay to have good days and bad days, and that the grieving process is not linear. You may experience a range of emotions, and your feelings may change from day to day. Trust that, in time, you will find hope and healing on the other side of your deepest pains.


Conclusion


Experiencing a miscarriage can be one of the most devastating events in a person's life. However, it is important to remember that you are not alone and that healing is possible. By acknowledging your feelings, seeking support, creating miscarriage keepsakes, taking care of your physical and emotional health, allowing for hope and resilience, and being patient with yourself, you can begin to find peace after a miscarriage. Remember that healing is a personal journey and that it's okay to take your time. With time and support, you will again find hope and healing beyond the pain.

not just a miscarriage, but, in fact, a baby

MyJuly27 Gone So Soon Keepsakes


Losing a little one is an incredibly difficult experience, and we understand how important it is to keep their memory alive. That's where MyJuly27 comes in–our unique service captures their precious footprints in a stunning artistic rendering to create a beautiful and meaningful miscarriage keepsake that will honor your baby. No matter the circumstances of your loss, we are here to tell your story. Don't let these precious memories fade away--reach out to us today to discover how we can help you create a keepsake that you will forever cherish.

 

-The Team at MyJuly27

 

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